Should the government be able to tell a woman what she can and can not do when it comes to the "A" word ..yes i mean Abortion

I feel there are cases in which it should be an option given, rape and incest...now mind you I am one who would be considered biased in this subject BUT I do not condone using abortion as a secondary form of birth control.  I was a rape victim and i am glad I had the option because if i had carried the pregnancy to term i know for a fact I would have been murdered and had the child been put up for adoption the father would have found the adoptive parents and killed them as well. Sometimes there is no way for others to understand or even fathom the details of how and why and sometimes quite frankly it isn't the public nor the governments business to have a say or force  these things. Consider hypothetically if you had a daughter who was brutally raped or even was in an abusive relationship and was raped would you take the option away from her as well knowing it would endanger her life as well as her mental health?  I am the first to say we all have our own opinions be they religious or just heritage if not both and we all have the right to believe how we do or don't. Telling a woman what she can and or cant do with their body is the same as telling a Christian he or she can not worship God or tithe to the church ...if someone believes it is in their best interest they do it whether it offends others or not. I know people who are as they say the result of a rape and I have seen first hand what they go through emotionally and how it affects their lives. Genetics again I am no expert BUT we do inherently take on our parental unit's traits good and bad. No I am not saying the child of a rape will go on to be violent in any way. BUT the emotional issues they do take on as well as many others from wanting to understand why they exist and if they should even be much less omg no wonder my life is a mess look where I came from. I am not speculating on this I have heard it from these friends mouths. And mind you this was all before my personal experience. I will not go into details but i will say again I do not support abortion as a secondary birth control. 
 I also feel there are at time medical reasons an abortion may be necessary, however i will not go into those as i am not familiar with the aspects in that process.

Please feel free to voice your opinion as I have said i enjoy learning from others and hearing other ideas than my own.